FRANGARD

 

Why there is "The Other Side"

I: Frangard's Corset Odyssey

II: Establishing the Client - Corsetiere Relationship

III: Two Years of Despair

IV: My Efforts are Rewarded - The Future is Assured

V:  A Meeting of "The Other Side"

VI:  Consolidation and New Contacts

VII:  Horizons Widen

 

 

Notes on Black Corsets

 

 

 

Why there is "The Other Side"

 

 

This is written in the hope that it will assist readers of Ivy Leaf's wonderful compilation in understanding the motivation of the men who wear corsets out of choice, the people who constitute "The Other Side".

 

It is to be hoped that the more disapproving readers will accept what is written is not meant to be sensational or intrusive. It is intended to be a sincere effort to explain to your readers the motivations of another member of the "Other Side".

 

Like Simon's story, I believe you will find that my story, “Frangard’s Odyssey” confirms that, even forty years ago, some corsetières recognised that men such as ourselves, not only posed no threat to them or society at large, but that they were actually were men who were worthy of their help and wise counsel. My contribution is also intended to be posthumous "thank you" to my own corsetière Iris, to Simon's Mary and to the others like them, who understood who we were and who were able to help us to obtain the apparel we find we must wear to feel "complete".

 

In a different way Ivy Leaf is a worthy heiress to those wonderful women of yesteryear in that she has seen fit to add the "Other Side" to her amazing website. That her site is possible, is thanks to modern technology - the world wide web which allows others to see how far society has advanced in its acceptance of behaviour that less than a generation ago would be the subject of ridicule at best, and criminality at worst.

 

The presentation adopts the "three W" approach - an opinion as to "Who" we are, "Why" we are like we are and "What" we are.

 

WHO WE ARE

 

Even today, amongst readers of Ivy Leaf's site there will be a broad range of attitudes towards men such as myself and Simon who have chosen to wear corsets and to anchor them down through their suspenders which are clipped to "ladies" nylon stockings.

 

There have been many attempts to explain the underlying psychological reasons for our behaviour. Amateur psychologists abound and very few psychiatrists really understand why we are motivated as we are. Certainly they understand less than the corsetières like "Mary" and Iris Norris of Gardners to whom Simon refers. I have spent much of his life wondering why, and have failed to find a real explanation.

 

To that end I set about trying to remember my boyhood to find out if there were any "clues" The result is I have written my "life story" concerning corsets, suspenders and stockings, Ivy leaf had agreed to present it separately. I leave it to your readers to compare it to Simon's Story and assess what they think of such men.

 

For most of our adult lives we have risked "being found out" with the attendant general public approbation or ridicule. The problem is that, for all the progress that has been made the public at large does not discriminate between manifestations of our choice. Old perceptions die hard, so that for every one who accepts them as they are there majority are rooted in old attitudes. The range of perception ranges from being labelled gay, when most of us are not all the way to being near criminal. The only certain place for acceptance is to meet in locations frequented by those who openly cater for "alternative lifestyles".

 

The one group which one would have hoped were understanding were psychiatrists yet even today there is an over-riding tone of condemnation in their attitude to our interest even today. The popular tendency is to lump all shades of behaviour t be the same. It is not as bad as 40-50 years ago when we were both taking our initial steps to respond to our feelings, but there remains much professional misunderstanding of our motivations.

 

What is remarkable is that during the "dark ages", there were rays of light. Both Simon and I were able to meet understanding women who became our personal corsetières. Women who understood that our motivations were harmless and were willing and ready to meet our requirements. Fortunately they leave a positive legacy for their exemplary tolerance has helped to widen tolerance in general society.

 

 

WHY WE ARE

 

Speaking from experience of having the mild condition, it operates on three levels, the Aesthetic, Physical and Psychological , which are "triggered" by our senses - Visual, Tactile and Acoustic. Almost every item of women's clothing might be fixated on, either exclusively or in combination including corsets, girdles, stockings, lingerie, boots, shoes, gloves,  skirts, dresses, belts etc. Most expect and want these items to be made out traditional fabrics such as satins and broches, and yarns such as silk, cotton or nylon. Others must have them made from leather,  rubber or PVC.

 

Given that boys are largely nurtured by women, it is hardly surprising that they are exposed from a very early age to the presence of feminine under-apparel. They see it when it is put on, they see it being taken off, they see it in the washing and in the drying, and they feel it through women's outer attire when they embrace older relatives platonically. When they pass through adolescence this infant "imprinting" is thus reinforced when they see advertisements or when they embrace girl friends.

 

Add to that the fact that, until the 1950s some parents still put infant boys in dresses- I have photos of my 15 month old brother in 1948 in such attire - and that, in 1946, I was required to wear the a liberty bodices until I rebelled  upon finding that my friend’s sister wore them too!. Also recall that male cut corsets were de rigueur for the officer class in the armed forces of Europe up to 1918 and that retired military men continued to patronise corsetières until the 1970s. Likewise hosiery for the masses only assumed a gender typing after World War 1. Similarly sock suspenders were commonly worn by middle class male adults until the late 1950s.

 

Given all that, it can hardly be surprising that some small percentage of boys, or young men are at some time curious as to what it can feel like "inside" apparel regarded as exclusively female. I believe such was the underlying motivation of Simon when he tried on his grandmother's corsets.

Still others were required to wear corrective orthopaedic corsets and suffered form withdrawal when they tried to go without them when “‘cured” and sought out corsets from their old maker or elsewhere.

 

We might take Simon's as a case in point. He grew up in an era when trying on women's clothes was at best regarded as abnormal, at worst as perverted or deviant. What his mother did, was a common response to what she had discovered and which probably "cured" some boys. In Simon's case, all it did was introduce Simon to what it was like to wear items that fitted correctly! As it happened, he liked the experience and was able to do so for several weeks. The punishment actually reinforced Simon's desire though he had to repress it for another 4-5 years when he became free of parental control and could do as he wished. His mother's well intentioned attempt at aversion therapy had the reverse result to what she intended because the motivation that led to Simon being "found out" was beyond his control.

 

Yet he was happy to live as a man with his a "secret" of which his mother believed him "cured" but which "Mary" his corsetière who obviously had a kind and profound understanding that his motivation was harmless which she was able to nurture.

 

 

WHAT WE ARE

 

What motivated the young men and boys to set out on such a course of action? I suggest they have addressed an ill-understood compulsion and acted upon it, despite the proscriptions of mores of a society which were they to ever have been “found out” would have subject them to ridicule or worse. I believe this strikes at the heart of why there is an "Other Side".

 

As I noted there are undoubtedly "triggers" of the senses which act on the subconscious and start boys such as Simon or myself on such a course of behaviour. In Simon's case it was the sense of touching the female corseted form, a strange combination of feeling maternal warmth, offset by the hardness or firmness of the corsets - rather than softness. He would get visual stimuli on washing and ironing days - the colour and sheen of fabric, the glint of the chrome plate on the busk clasp and the suspender fittings, the silhouette of the belted, cinched waist and bosom. Finally he would sense the careful deportment, modified by tight corseting and/or high heeled shoes.

 

I would also suggest that, among that minority who would go so far as to try wearing such apparel the majority would immediately lose the interest. Others would have found that the tactile sensations associated with wearing the items pleased their psyche at some sub-or semi conscious level. It might be one or a number of sensations. It might be the feel of the tensioned stocking fabric on the leg, the stretch and unstretching of the elastic straps of suspenders during walking, the constant hug of stretched girdle fabric or the sense of "containment' or pressure provided by boned corset that is firmly or tightly laced.

 

As to satisfying the new found pleasure, in all cases remember that wearing these items of apparel during the day is not too difficult, since they can are totally concealed by conventional man's apparel - trousers, socks, pants vest and shirt.

 

Also it should be noted that, by and large, these men are neither transvestites nor voyeurs, nor are they gay. Indeed most are quiet, inoffensive heterosexual youths or men, many of whom marry with their "secret". Granted there are variations in behaviour. In the  men who exhibit some or all of these tendencies. Yet for many years they were all branded with the label of either "pervert", "deviant" terms replaced by "kinky" in the 1960s.

 

In truth, the psyche of each one has, in one of a myriad ways, been sub-consciously imprinted with a fascination for these items of apparel. In them the imprinting has made for an element of compulsion. It is my personal experience that the individual is unable to do anything but pursue the matter. Aversion therapy as tried was tried by Simon's mother may have while it appeared to succeed, it only did so while he remained at home. In the long run, when he was "free" unknown to his mother it proved had the reverse effect to what she intended!

 

In taking such action some boys found that wearing the apparel gave them strong stimuli of a sexual nature. In the case of Simon, it was being forced to live in the corset bra and stockings for some weeks that allowed him to reach an appreciation of them. This longer term satisfaction is what men and women who wear corsets out of choice derive from being able to wear the items all day, every day.

 

In contrast, in the case of girls of the 1950s, there was an expectation that they wear such attire day in day out. Convention gave them no choice. Some liked it enough to continue to were girdles or corsets. Those who tolerated it for fashion and convention's sake were fortunate that the era of women's liberation which gathered at the end of the 1960s, allowed them to become truly free to choose what they wore.

 

Yet for all the condemnation of the corsets, suspenders and stockings because of the restriction and discomfort, some women such as Alison, and Ivy herself admit to finding that they came to appreciate the feelings that wearing the apparel gave them. Well it is the same for the likes of Simon or myself. We tolerate it because the positive aspects gained by of wearing them outweigh the disadvantages and discomfort the result is positive.

 

In my case I like to feel the restraint on my movements caused by the busk, boning and back steels of my corsets. I like to feel the pull of my suspenders as transmitted into my stockings as I walk. Seated at my desk, during the working day, I like to be able to touch the metal fittings of my suspenders through my trousers or to locate and trace the outline of the finishing loops in my stocking tops or the hard ridge of the stocking seams, etc. I like to hear my suspender clips click as they dangle and knock on one another and to hear the busk studs click into place. I would miss it all if I could not wear the apparel that gives me this satisfaction.

 

 

SATISFYING THE COMPULSION

 

For much of the 20th Century there was strong prejudice against men who like to wear certain items of what are commonly regarded as apparel for women. Yet it was only in that century that many of those items of apparel were ascribed as being for the exclusive wear by one sex or the other. Remember the widespread prejudice against women in trousers until the 1960s?

 

Once a man recognised that his desires must be met, he had to wrestle with the fact that he want to wear some, but not all items of women's apparel. After that, such men, myself included, were faced with the challenge of how to acquire them. The difficulties posed by convention did in some instances lead to some unfortunates stealing the items of interest and rightly falling foul of the law, but wrongly to public ridicule, as a result of sensational press reporting. Such incidents contributed to give even the most law abiding man a real sense of "guilt" about his  compulsion.

 

Add to that the fact that it is not any years since a man could not venture out wearing the items, even when concealed, without risking arrest if detected. I read of it happening to someone who was sitting on a bus only for the gap between his sock and trouser leg to expose t other people’s  notice the fact that he was wearing women's stockings, and to be arrested for "causing a breach of the peace".

 

Following a course of acquisition was not easy, as Simon was to find out when using those of his mother. Later in life, those who had Simon's courage to enter a corset shop, found they were summarily rebutted by women who were only being true to the conventional wisdom of the time. Ultimately, acquisition was dependent on what was to prove his relatively rare good luck in finding a woman like his Mary, possessed as she was of the attitude and understanding of one who had accepted that some men had a need to wear corsets and related apparel and that fact did not make them into monsters.

 

Happily since the 1970s there has been much more tolerance. For sure there has been a change of what the general public regards as acceptable, nevertheless some women contributors in the early days of "Girdles and more" , gave more than a hint of supporting the condemnatory attitude of some corsetières.

 

Since the 1970s too, a person can have anonymous access to the things that might fulfil their needs be it mail order to acquire such clothes, web sites providing the chat rooms, sources of information, supply  or whatever, and a climate that tolerates what they do or wear. And last but not least there is E-Bay and Pay Pal.

 

While we have moved on, old attitudes die hard and over the years of reading web sites, I was always distressed to read postings by former corsetières rebutting the very idea that a man may wish to purchase a corset and wear it himself.

 

 

 

 

I:  Frangard's Corset Odyssey

 

 

INTRODUCTION

 

"Simon's Story", a sincere and frank account of his life long interest in corsets, has inspired me to share with your readers the longer and more tortuous path I followed to reach a similar ending. Like Simon, my path eventually led me to the wonderful person who became, not just my personal corsetière, but a true friend and confidante, for close to 25 years, which only ended with her death. While the paths we followed were very different, the motivation or compulsion that Simon and I felt was so strong that, in the end our faith that we would find "someone who understood" was rewarded by finding women who were not only wonderful corsetières, but fine human beings.

 

In my case, it is more than 40 years since the compelling force caused me to first wear my own stockings and suspenders. It is nearly 35 years since I started wearing corsets. If anyone had said to me, when I was 14 years old, that by the time I was 35, I would want to wear back lacing corsets out of choice for the rest of my life, I would have said they were crazy. The very idea that one day I would admire and wear something I had initially found almost repulsive was an idea far beyond my imagination or desire.

 

In my story I have sought to include reflections on how I felt at key points in my odyssey. I hope that these albeit biased insights might help others to understand the motivation of men like myself. Initially Simon and I were very differently motivated. Simon found the fascination of corsets directly. Mine grew out of a first fascination for fully-fashioned stockings, the "nylons" which were almost universally worn by most women from the late 1940s and for most of the 1950s, when I was growing up.

 

Yes, stockings were the catalysts which eventually led me to discover my "corset self". I trust readers who expect to read only about corsetry will be patient with the first few pages, but what I say is very relevant to the path my odyssey followed.

 

 

EARLY IMPRINTING AND AVERSION

 

Psychologists talk of imprinting on the psyche of young people. It is my experience that imprinting can be either positive or negative. On the positive side of my imprinting were certain objects that fascinated me in that. Each time I saw them reinforced the mental question I had as to how it must feel to wear them. Among the items were the knee length shiny black or brown leather gaiters that farmers wore to the animal market in my town, and sheer ladies stockings; the nylons that appeared after the end of the second world war.

 

At that age, I certainly had no need to wear any of these items but they did interest me very much. If they were referred to in advertisements or in newspaper articles or photos, my attention would be instantly drawn to them and I would avidly read anything about them especially about stockings. I was instantly aware of them if I saw them worn. The only item I had access to were the gaiters. My great uncles wore them and there was an old pair of my grandfather, which I tried on, but they were made for grown men and my preteen legs were far too small. My interest in them died there and then. But the inaccessibility of stockings heightened my fascination.

 

On the negative side of my imprinting were liberty bodices, corsets and the shade of pink generally used in the fabrics from which they were made and which features so often in Ivy Leaf's website. I am also aware that psychologists also try negative imprinting under the term aversion therapy. As he tells us, Simon's mother tried it in an attempt to break his interest in corsets but of course she failed. In my case I had no need of such therapy in that, from my earliest years I had been all but repulsed by the shade of pink of the corsets which both my grandmothers wore, and which I occasionally saw drying on a clothes horse. As for the lady who had the black glass "Spirella Corsetière" sign outside her house in our village, I assumed that she made pink corsets too! The liberty bodice reinforced the negative when, one winter at the age of six, after some resistance on my part, my mother persuaded me to wear a white one. Within a few weeks I perceived this to be "girls-attire". I rebelled and refused to wear it again.

 

 

STOCKINGS

 

While Simon opted for corsets, I first became fascinated by stockings in 1947, I was seven years old. I was standing with my mother who was chatting to a group of women who, like herself, had recently had boomer babies. At one point, all were admiring the stockings one of the mothers was wearing. I of course looked to see what they were talking about. I can still recall what I saw. She was standing in black suede high heeled shoes, of the type fashionable for the time, and above them were the square cut heels and seams of pale sheer nylons. When asked where she got them, their wearer said "I don't know, you'd better ask my husband". This was when such stockings were as hard to find as old dust and on the "black market". In retrospect I realise that it was the start of the "golden age" of fully-fashioned stockings. What I saw were all so different from the lisle and art.silk stockings which every female member of my family, my mother included, generally wore.

 

At first "nylons" graced the legs of the more fashion conscious women in our village but within a few years they were being worn at school, first by the senior girls and gradually, as the prices came down, and availability improved, by the girls in my form. After that I noticed the seams, and if they were straight, as well as the various heel designs. I also developed a liking for darker shades. My preference for black nylons began at the age of eleven when I was thrilled to see the women of the Royal Family wear them at the funeral of King George VI.

 

Nylons were a key talking point in conversations, in magazines, and even in songs in the 1950s. A close second were vital statistics and, of course, waist measurements. I was also in my adolescence, and as a result my interest was continually reinforced. I saw photo pin-ups of models posing with raised skirts or in her lingerie showing their stocking tops and suspenders. Amongst the most memorable were those of Gina Lollobrigida as a Can-Can dancer and Sophia Loren, holding her skirt by her side and walking "with swaying suspenders" in "Picturegoer" in 1955. It was also an era of the small waist. A starlet Sabrina had the smallest waist at 19 inches and how she did it was the cause of speculation, but that is for later in my story. Full-length satin slips and negligees edged in lace were also popular items of attire for pin ups too. They looked fetching but I had no desire to wear such items.

 

Unusual styles of stockings and corsets such as the "Merry Widow" appeared in weekly magazines like "Reveille". There were cartoons featuring skirts blown up to show "frillies", corsets and stocking tops and seams, which appeared in "Blighty" that my father read and on comic post cards. There was a plethora of advertisements for nylons in magazines and I often sneaked a peep at the women's magazines in the house just to look at the stocking and girdle adverts. I learned about gauge and denier and about "tummy control", but was perplexed by the fact that, though all the girdles had suspenders they were always shown being worn without stockings. Nylons even featured in pop songs of the days such as "Sisters" by the Beverly Sisters and "Long Black nylons" was even sung on the "Goon Show" by Ray Ellington.

 

All this was in the realm of fantasy, but in real life I also found the dark shades of smoke and navy most appealing and especially black as worn by nurses when walking too or from duty at the local hospital, and when I moved from home I saw them worn by police women and WRNS. What was strange was that while black was acceptable for the services ,it became considered "fast" for fashionable women to wear. In about 1955 my interest was spiked again when the "best dressed girl" from our village returned for Easter holidays with her calves graced as usual by a neutral shade of nylons, except that this time hers were complemented by seams and heels knitted in contrasting black. I thought they looked wonderful. Shortly after one girl who walked with me to catch the school train wore a style that had partially black seams, ending with black arrows at mid-calf.

 

CORSET GLAMOUR

 

As for the corset connection, in my teens I had a sudden change of heart about certain foundation garments - but not pink corsets. For the first time I saw that corsets could be glamorous, when in 1955 I was entranced to see Dawn Addams posing in a busk-fronted, closely boned corset faced in red satin, as the centre fold of "Picture Post". I was entranced by her corset, but was disappointed that she wore fishnet tights under it instead of suspenders and stockings. I now knew how the small waist was achieved.

 

This image must have reacted on my subconscious because I suddenly became aware of the drawings of elegant women - wearing wonderful corselettes, in the advertisements that "Marshall and Snelgrove" placed usually in one of the bottom corners of the front page of the Sunday newspaper "Observer". I imagined those corselettes would be worn by the likes of Barbara Goalen, one of the top high fashion models of the time, and I thought they were the height of women's under-glamour appeal, and a far cry from what was worn by my grandmothers.

 

On my first trip to London in 1955 my interest was tweaked when I saw girdles and corselettes in the escalator adverts. Those adverts were the first germ of an urge to experience how it felt like to be "inside" a girdle, as well as in stockings. I never imagined that, one day I would wear my own male cut military high top corset, not unlike those corselettes but without the bra cups, and real corsets, busk fronted and much more heavily boned than those dreamy feminine creations of lycra, lace, ribbon and satin.

 

All this happened to the backdrop of another development in my life. At the age of 14, I was first called upon from time to time, by my aged Grandmother to help her wrap her corsets around her form as she sat in the chair in her bedroom, in which she spent her day and which she never left for five years. Overweight for most of her life, she had first worn them as a girl in the 1890s, and was a proud woman. Clearly, she had a dependency for corsets because, although had been humbled by a mild stroke, she still insisted that she wore them all day every day. Usually the daily visiting nurse or my mother helped her with them, but on Saturdays and Sundays, when I was not at school, the lot sometimes fell to me.

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I would take her the morning paper and she would call upon me, her teenage grandson, for help. Usually I simply had to take the stiff pink corsets, open them out and slide them down between her body and the back and sides of the chair. I would then pass, what I know to be the busk ends, around to her front. Doing so wasn't easy for either of us as she had to struggle just to lean either forward or to the left or to the right for me to slide them down as close to the seat of the chair, as I could, so that they could be as effective as she desired. On her "bad days", she also called on me to help her to hook its busk front, something I had never seen before. I noticed that she could deal with the hooks and eyes above and below. She wore what I now know to be a busk-fronted, front lacer and I would leave her to huff and puff as she manipulated the laces to get to the desired level of support. It was then I learned to be tactful, for the fitting it often made her grumpy but once laced she was clearly felt happier.

 

This ritual went on for the following three years until I left home and continued for two more years when she was transferred to a long term care residence for the last year of her life. If my ministrations with her corsets did anything, it was to reinforce my distaste for the very idea of the colour pink and for the kind of corsets and the wide pink elastic suspenders associated with them. But on reflection I do recall wondering what it must feel like to be "inside" those corsets after she had laced them on. Subconsciously those thoughts must have added to my growing fascination with corsets.

 

 

THE MAGIC MOMENT

 

The "magical moment", that was the pivotal event, which was to ultimately to change my life forever, came in the winter of 1956. It was a "forfeit" dance in our local Church Hall. At one point I had to remove my tie and tie it around the ankle of my partner who was also my girl friend. She was wearing pale mesh stockings and the very act of touching one of them as I tied on my tie - something that was at once so delicate yet so tautly stretched - caused me to wonder what it could feel like to be wearing them. Understand I was not interested in how the stockings might look on me but only in how I would feel when wearing them.

 

It reinforced my early imprinting, and to this day I cannot explain, what kept causing me to want to put myself in the place of the people wearing the things that fascinated me in order experience what it felt like to wear them. Some might say it was because stockings were "forbidden" to a young man but that would not be the truth. I did not need any one of them. I did not need a hearing aid - I was not deaf - but for years I had wanted to try wearing both items.

 

 

EXPERIMENTATION

 

More than ever, like Simon did, I now felt compelled to act out my new desire to try on stockings. I found where my mother kept her stockings and identified a pair she appeared to have forgotten about. One day when the opportunity arose I secreted them away until I had the chance to try them on.

 

To call the experience an anticlimax would be an understatement. My rough skin and nails were constantly snagging them on a hangnail or my nails themselves, even before I had one ready to put over my foot. I should have had a manicure before I tried to put them on. I then had trouble passing one over my toes and foot - only to discover my foot was too big for the size my mother wore. I persevered and pulled one up over my knee to my lower thigh - which it just reached. I then realised they needed holding up and of course I had no thigh garters and certainly no suspenders on a suspender belt or corset.

 

I gave up but vowed to find some large elastic bands to hold them up next time I tried them on which, when I did use them proved to be no real answer. Stockings need suspenders to fit properly. I had learned how flimsy sheer nylon was and being far from the anonymity of a city store where I might buy a pair, my interest died - or more accurately - it went dormant -or did it?

 

The idea that I might like to try wearing stockings myself, was reinforced when I saw a photo of Lawrence Olivier in drag, suspendering a stocking on an inside cover of "Photoplay" magazine of 1955-6. It caused me to think if he could get a size to fit him, maybe I could too. From then on I priced stockings in adverts but where I lived it was impossible to do buy them anonymously. Instead I sought solace in the pin up photos of models showing stocking tops and suspenders in the men’s magazines of the 1950s. I liked the models in girdles which pulled on their stockings so well, best of all.

 

As for my girl friend, she talked frankly about her girdles, stockings and suspenders and clearly she liked to wear them, but only after school when she changed from her gymslip and ankle socks - nylons were too expensive to be ruined at school. She never complained except to say on occasion "Ouch, I'm sitting on a suspender!". I was also pleased when she asked me to look at her seams and tell her if were straight or not. She even told me that the way to keep one's seams straight was to secure the back suspender clip right on the seam, something I would remember when I started wearing stockings myself. She also told me that one of the girdles that her mother wore for best had six suspenders on it and that was a really serious thing to wear and that it helped to keep her seams straight. I marvelled at the idea which added to the mystique of what it must "feel like inside one."

 

In those days, a relationship never developed much beyond "mild petting". In my case I was fascinated just to embrace her and feel her girdled derriere and her taut suspenders through her dress or skirt. The height of excitement was to caress her leg as far up as I was allowed to go. Yes her suspender clips were the agreed limit and I lovingly explored their contours with my finger tips and marvelled at the tension in the back suspender elastics which indented her flesh. On every occasion I was left wondering what could it felt like to wear such things, but I was powerless to do anything about it.

 

 

IN ABEYANCE

 

Then all changed, I left home and went to university in London and forgot about it for several years. I had enough exposure to the girdles and stockings that my girl friend wore and regularly seeing the adverts when riding on the tube escalators. At Xmas 1958 I went into a department store and bought her stockings for a present, probably the last seamed stockings she ever wore as she was glad not to have the chore of seam monitoring. I pleaded for her to stay with seams them but had to accept the evidence all around. By about mid-1959 younger women had all but given up wearing seamed stockings which disappointed me, though my girl friend happily still wore girdles and not a suspender belt. I remained envious of her being "free" to wear stockings when I could not, though strangely in those days, I never had a feeling of wondering how it must feel in the girdle. The memory of "Granny Pink" remained too strong, I suppose. I regretted the much reduced sighting of seams and came to admire older women whose legs they still graced and who were very obviously well corseted as well.

 

By way of substitute, I also started to pay attention to adverts featuring mature women in corsets, including styles which I had previously disliked. My bus stop, in S.W.  London, was directly outside W. Adams and Co., corset makers. They had miniature corsets on stands in the window which I thought was very clever but at that time. Only a white corselette offered any appeal to me. But the image that finally pushed me over the top was when I saw the poster for the film "The Millionairess", in which Sophia Loren had stripped to down to a black,  busk-fronted corselette, long black suspenders and black nylons for her doctor Peter Sellers. The image will be burned on my memory till I die. To me she was perfection and again the image caused me to wonder how it would feel to be dressed like that.

How many men were influenced by Sophie Loren in the film "The Millionairess". It is well documented that Peter Sellers had a direct influence on the costume, and was strongly influenced by the result! - Ivy

 

From the moment I saw the image corsets looked different. The desire to possess my own corset grew more quickly and as I noticed more and more photos of glamorous women posing in basques and girdles. But how could I, lacking as I did, Simon's courage? It took all of five years before I resolved to do something about it. I knew I could how to buy stockings and as I had several years experience of buying for girl friends in big department stores. I was too shy to buy a suspender belt let alone a girdle or corset. However for several years my various girl friends agreed to wear the kind of suspender belts I liked - if I paid for them. So, I accompanied them into the less formidable boutique stores and we jointly chose. This experience helped me to "know the drill", so to speak.

 

 

I BUY A SUSPENDER BELT AND STOCKINGS

 

Eventually I felt the overriding need to buy my own stockings and finally, I was ready to brave the issue. It had taken several years but now I had to do it. But what was I to get to hold them up, a suspender belt or a girdle? I quickly ruled out a girdle as my instinct told me that they were purchased by the wearer and I could not explain that away. Corsets I thought were sold in the inner pink and white depths of large stores that I judged to be "women only". Besides I didn't know "my size".

 

In the end I bought the stockings in the Army and Navy Stores on Victoria Street. My story was that I was buying them in black for my mother who was a nurse. I had found out the biggest size was 11, which was also my sock size. I thought that, even if she doubted me, she would see that size 102 was unlikely to fit me. As for the suspender belt I went to a small boutique called "Neatawear" in the concourse of Victoria Station where I had once shopped for one with a girl friend. I thought that if I'd bought the stockings in a large size at the same time the sales lady would think I was buying for myself and I would blush.

 

From the early 1960s "ribbon" suspender belts had become quite popular and as I didn't know what size "my girl friend took." The salesgirl suggested I took a ribbon type as she said "one size fits all", and I settled on that. I slunk home with my prizes. But where was I to put them on? I still shared a room and couldn't do it there, so I settled on the toilet at work when a few of us had to work on a Saturday.

 

I put on the suspender belt and then the first stocking. Apart from snagging it on my rough hands I was not disappointed. After I had suspendered one stocking, I flexed my leg and was overwhelmed by the "feeling". When I got both stockings on, it felt wonderful. I dressed again and walked out and all the time felt my colleagues were looking at me. I liked the feel of taut nylon on my leg, I liked the pull I felt in the elastic of suspenders alternating on my thigh as I walked. But after about an hour I retreated to take them off. But I was addicted.

 

 

DISCOVERY AND EDUCATION

 

My new found delight was dulled by the discovery that I had a lot to learn, and I had many questions but my "secret" was such I could not ask for advice from anyone. The equivalent of Simon's Mary would not enter my life for another seven years. I had to learn by trial and error, whereas women and girls wearing the same things would exchange ideas. In retrospect the process helped because I came to understood how to integrate wearing stockings and suspenders with my daily life. I came to realise that a corset or girdle would make a better support for suspenders which all helped prepare me for when the time came to look for my first corsets.

 

I was reminded that it was all too easy to snag and ladder stockings and quickly discovered that those knitted with 30 denier yarn were much more forgiving of my efforts. Not only did I like the feel of wearing stockings with suspenders, I liked to feel them being pulled hard by the suspenders and I quickly ruled out stretch stockings as an option. Moreover as I had large calves, I found that fully-fashioned type fitted better than seam-free. I also found that if I wore two suspender belts - one back to front which gave four suspenders per stocking with true back suspenders - I got something like the "pull" I wanted on my stockings. I learned it was easier to hook up a belt back-to-front, that is doing up the waist hook in front and then rotate the whole thing until it was in the right position to clip my back suspenders on my stockings. I discovered several means of fastening them and found out that doing up hooks and eyes when pulling on both sides of the belt at once is not so easy until one learns the knack.

 

I soon realised that quite quickly what is at first is just tight can become uncomfortable if the creases dig into the skin especially if one kept one's suspenders taut as I had come to like which meant that they pulled hard on the waist of the belt. It was to teach me how important it was to monitor oneself in belt or corset to prevent skin breakdown.

 

With the back suspenders I discovered what it felt like to sit on a suspender clip or length adjuster. I liked all these sensations and I got a strange pleasure out of having this "secret" no one knew of and of having to "put things right". Without realising it then I had made my decisions on the debate of "Inside or out" which appears on Ivy Leaf's site. For work I wore my suspender belt over my vest, but under my underpants. From being all fingers and thumbs I became very adept at clipping my stockings to my suspenders and in taking them off. Though after a while I always wore gloves with 15 denier - the silk inner gloves used by rear gunners ex army surplus. Even then I found it hard to actually clip the stocking top to a suspender when wearing gloves. On reflection, I see that all this served as an apprenticeship for my odyssey towards full time corseting.

 

 

STOCKING TYPES

 

With time I tried all kinds of stockings - seamed plain knit, seamed mesh, seamed plain knit, seamed stretch, seam-free mesh, seam-free stretch, patterned, textured, fishnet, I tried them all. As I had decided on strong pulling suspenders I found in the non-stretch yarn styles better than the seam-free type tended to cramp my toes more than fully-fashioned and found I liked plain knit more than mesh, though I rarely wore the sheerer ones as strong pull made snags into ladders very easily. I preferred the darker shades though it meant keeping one socks up to hide them. I also preferred the non-stretch styles as one could actually move one's toes around inside the nylon.

 

I liked feeling the stocking tops and suspender clips around my thighs all the time. I especially liked to be reminded of their presence and feel the alternating pull, when the action of walking sitting down or standing up stretched the front and back suspender elastics in turn. I did like to feel the elastic stretch and as I sat I like to feel the resistance of the taut stocking on the front of my knees. Conversely, I liked to feel the bagged knees pulled taut again when I stood up. I tied wearing them right side out or inside out. I liked them inside out, though I'm told it makes them more snag-prone. Like this it accentuates the ridge of the seam especially on the most stretched areas like the calf and heel. Years later I was to find that was how my personal corsetière liked to wear them too - another bond between us.

 

Of course I found that if the stockings were not pulled tight by the suspenders, they twisted out of position and then I could not feel my seams when I tried to locate them through my trousers. I also remembered what my then girl friend had said, 10 years earlier about securing one clip on the seam to keep the seam straight.

 

Since most women had switched to seamless stockings, by 1970 not only was the number of fully fashioned styles reducing but I found the choice of colours was reducing too and I lamented the loss of navy, which I had always admired.

 

 

STOCKING MAKES

 

When I began regular stocking wearing the major makers of stockings were Charnos, Aristoc, Bear Brand, Ballito and Wolsey. The first stockings I ever bought were Charnos "Moonbeams". I had no idea what I had bought until I took the first stocking out of the packet and slid my hand in the first stocking top. I will never forget how delighted I was to find that its diamond after (shadow) welt pattern below the tops was the very same as I had most admired when worn by pin-up models.

 

In addition in the 1950s makers used to print a signature label on the welts (tops) and in pin-up photos I noted several makes, like Charnos, Aristoc and Morley in UK photos and Albert's "Classic" or "Walking Sheers" and Triumph "Ease Top" in those from the USA. In 1967, when I started, the Charnos range still used them, but not many other makes I bought did.

 

 

DENIER

 

I quickly confirmed my experience of eight years earlier and found that I was too clumsy to handle 15 denier stockings and by chance came upon Charnos "Commonsense" in 30 Denier. A phone call to the Aristoc office in London elicited the fact that Aristoc still made a 30 Denier seamed stocking too, called "Oxford". Yet by 1971 both makers had "phased them out" before I knew it and was able to build up a "reserve stock". About that time out came Aristoc "222", later to be known as "Harmony" which, at 20 denier was more forgiving than 15 denier and since they were widely available I wore them regularly. At the time I first bought them decimalization had just happened and they were 25p a pair. When they stopped production in 1993 I was paying , GBP 3.50 a pair, a 14 times rise in 22 years!

 

With the loss of the other makes I made it a policy to wear stockings still in the shops and to keep the "rarer" brands for special occasions. In this way before "Harmony" were phased out in 1993 by which time I had built up a reserve of 100 pairs, and before Albert's "walking Sheers" were phased out I had another 50 pairs which I estimate will last the rest of my life.

 

 

STOCKING DETAILS

 

I found the details were a fascinating part of the hosier's art. I liked the finishing holes in the stocking tops, the ladder stops in the afterwelts to which I have referred, but found the heel design to be the most appealing part of stockings and I found the longer narrower cuban heel of Charnos "Moonbeams" and Aristoc "Ascot" and Bear Brand "Arizona" to be my visual preference. The only problem was they were all 15 denier that snagged and laddered all to easily. Hence, I settled on wider shorter "chunky" heels of the 30 denier Charnos "Commonsense", Aristoc "Oxford" and from the USA Alberts "Walking Sheers". Having been imprinted with cuban heels I never found the point heels which supplanted them in the late 1960s on the Charnos "Orchids" or Aristoc "Harmony" styles, to be so appealing.

 

 

SUSPENDER BELTS AND SUSPENDERS

 

The range of designs of suspender belts amazed me. I bought first a ribbon style, then a "gartee" before finding a store that sold the classic style. Naturally all came with four suspenders, which had been the fashion. Later in my odyssey I was to reflect on whether espousal of the suspender belt by younger women had added to the problem of keeping their seams straight, speeded the research and ultimate dominance of first seam-free hose and then tights and to the near demise of the fully -fashioned hose. Whilst I found the glint of the chrome strap fitting very appealing in photos in the late 1960s they were harder to find as makers were responding to the chrome allergy scare and most came with enamel clips. My preference for very taut suspendering revealed that the certain combinations of elastic and that the length adjuster clip (regulator) which had sharp teeth which bit into the elastic, when it was closed in the "working" position, performed better than those which had a raised pattern which pressed on the elastic and slipped under the level of tension I liked. I came to appreciate the slogan on the packet of "Sphere" suspenders I bought in the haberdashery department which said "fit Sphere and be safe"! I found that woven elastic best, while the sharp teeth were much harder on certain types of suspender elastic than others. I found I had to change elastic quite often. I found plastic clips and adjusters to be quite unreliable. As for the detachable style that came with corset clips, I had no use of them because as yet I was not thinking of corsets, that style is for later in my story.

 

So I began to experiment with making my own. I bought extra suspenders "Winfield" brand in Woolworths, all with white clips and elastic and with several designs of stocking clips and thicknesses and diameters of clip buttons ("nobs"). For the first time in my life I bought needles and thread and learned to sew. I could now unpick the elastic from the suspender belt itself, change the elastic and even to dye them. In my quest for strength I even cut up the webbing of an elasticised belt and made suspenders from it. It wasn't that good a solution as the elastic didn't fold flat around the clip link though the pull was amazing to feel. As for the length adjusters I found two types. One type which relied on folded metal to crimp the end of the elastic was very hard to deal whilst another design allowed the elastic end to be folded over the loop and sewn in place. It added a little to the bulk but on balance I liked that better.

 

Suspenders were always the but of masculine jokes, yet I now know that almost every detail of corsets were patented by men to meet the needs of women. I was coming to appreciate this. I marvelled at the technological skill that created stockings. Likewise I quickly came to marvel at how dependent the whole thing was on the humble suspender and secretly I prided myself on my expertise in suspender design and performance. Even now in 2006, the agony columns of web sites are peppered with questions about suspenders, which I think are a very under appreciated thing.  They are essential to hold up stockings and for all girdles and many corsets they, along with their stocking charges are the bedrock anchorage. Throughout my odyssey, I realised this and the more of Ivy leaf's comments that I read, it is clear that she and other corsetières share this view.  Confirmation if needed was given in mid-2005 on the content page of her web site and that she chose to place it below the contents list of the original and still most important section on the site "Spirella corsetières" . The image is small and might easily be passed over as simply a section of vintage suspender elastic and its length adjuster clip, (regulator). However look more closely, and take time to appreciate the beauty woven into the ribbed suspender strap and the combination of functionality and attention to detail on the flap of the regulator. Notice firstly how trouble was taken to design that pattern and then to make the die to stamp it on the metal and secondly how the charmingly shaped metal tab to help its wearer lift the flap to alter the length of the elastic in its charge has been integrated into the stamping process. It is sad that for generations such things had to be covered up. Looking back on the history here can have been no more sumptuous display of corsets and suspenders than in the Edwardian era. Sadly stocking technology had not then advanced, but it is encouraging that corset revivalists have married them to fully-fashioned stockings and - thanks partly to none other than Madonna herself have made such attire acceptable as outer wear.

 

What a change there has been in one generation. I learned by trial and error. What I would have given to have the advice given today in web sites, such as that of Ivy Leaf and "Girdles and More". Today, I know from personal experience, the answer to almost every question posed, but in the 1960s, secrets had to stay well concealed. The irony being that as society's mores have changed so as to accepted people like Simon and myself, the availability of the very things we want to wear had all but absent. Moreover it is in the hands of well meaning new generation, who lack the insights of women like Ivy Leaf, Alison, Isobel and Marianne on one side and Simon and myself on the other.

 

 

FEAR OF DETECTION

 

At first I wore stockings and suspenders alone at home in the evening or at weekends. Slowly gained courage to wear them under my trousers to outdoors. At first, going outside while wearing them made me feel guarded. I was always afraid of someone noticing and learned to take care. Suddenly I realised that it had never occurred to me that to question whether any man I saw on a train or bus, or in the office, might have suspenders and stockings on under his male clothes. This realisation helped me to relax about my concern that my secret might be accidentally found out.

 

I learnt by trial and error what it was possible for a man to wear under his day clothes. I had settled on black, fully fashioned nylons with seams and four suspenders per stocking (I sewed on the second two pairs myself). I was now ready to wear them to work for the first time. However, I was afraid the waist band would be so uncomfortable that I would have to take them off in the office toilet. My fears proved unfounded if I found out at weekends that if I wore the belt over my vest there was never any discomfort and within days I wore stockings to work all day every day and have done ever since initially with suspender belts but as I will later recount, for the last 30 years with corsets.

 

I also learned new pitfalls, but with care I learned to disguise evidence of the suspenders showing through the thighs of my trousers, not always easy especially if one wore the fashionable tighter fitting trousers worn by younger men in the 1960s. It became second nature to make sure my socks were always pulled up so that I never showed that my legs were covered by sheer black nylon. In meetings I learned to spot the chairs with plastic-covered seats as on one occasion I got up and as I pushed the chair under the table, saw the imprints of the clips, straps and length adjusters of both of my back suspenders in the plastic! Likewise I was careful not to leave such imprints on the seat of a bus.

 

Having acted on what was compelling me, I read several popular psychology books in an effort to understand what had motivated me. I read widely and read a million contradictory opinions. I eventually concluded that I did not fit any pattern, but I was not alone - regrettably graffiti in public toilet walls had told me that. All I knew was that I felt more "complete" when I wore stockings with, at that time, a suspender belt. I had no desire to display myself nor wear any other items of female apparel except that I continued to enjoy seeing how good women looked when wearing them.

 

THE DESIRE FOR A CORSET GROWS

 

Over the next year or two I bought more stockings and suspender belts in shops until at one count I had bought 36 pairs of stockings and had most of them and 15 suspender belts all in a dedicated drawer. But I was becoming more demanding. By mail order I bought a "large" size, (28 inch waist), 6 inch deep waspie with plastic bones and long detachable suspenders from Kesman. From the B. Cligman (Estelle) mail order store in Walthamstow, London E 17, I bought a 30-inch waist, 8 inch deep suspender belt, also with plastic bones.

 

What a revelation it was to wear each of them. I learned a lot -both positive and negative. It was my first experience of boning - "light" meaning plastic that kinked in time. I found out that the hooks of detachable suspenders would move along the metal loops and suddenly pull off the elastic loops sewn on the hem of the waspie if the elastic got really taut especially if I sat down. The deep suspender belt gave me my first taste of mild hip control as well as allowing me to feel what the pull of real "back" suspenders might feet like on a girdle or corset. It is interesting to read in Ivy Leaf's site how much opinion differs on back suspenders. I liked the new dimension they gave to stocking wearing and was more determined than ever to get the "real thing". I experimented more and found that wearing the waspie and deep belt together approximated to a real corset, which was the germ of an idea to get one. But where was I to do so? The "Clothing and Dress" section of "Exchange and Mart" still concentrated on other items.

 

 

A BREAKTHROUGH

 

Meanwhile, while I was thinking about "where?", two other events happened at the same time to reinforce my desire, they were:-

       An advert for foundation garments featuring a photograph of a woman in a white corselette. She looked so relaxed it renewed my feeling of what it must be like to be "inside" such a garment with its shoulder straps, hip control and tautly suspendered stockings.

 

       An article in the "Guardian" newspaper weekly fashion page of Mar 9th, 1971, ran a piece on hosiery and whether stockings would make a "come back" after every woman had tried the new fangled tights. In it the writer Alison Adburgham, said "there's no doubt many women feel trimmer when girded by a girdle and are tightly suspendered."

That phrase, combined with the image I'd seen in the advert, made a great impression on me. Now I had to get a corset, but "how?". However even in 1971 it wasn't as easy for a man to buy a corset to fit him as it is today unless he was possessed of Simon's undoubted courage. For me, mail order was the only way to avoid real embarrassment!

 

There were still a myriad mail order adverts for ladies' corsets in pink like the ones my grandmothers had worn. I still thought that they were awful and I still saw them in the windows of what had become evident was the declining number of dedicated corset shops and control top pantyhose began their onslaught on women's figures.

 

 

MY FIRST CORSET

 

Suddenly things brightened for me in August 1971 when I saw Estelle's advert for a "black satin corset" in the "Clothing and Dress" section of "Exchange and Mart". I had to get it and I did not hesitate. But first, "What size was I? I knew I could get by with 28 inch or "large" suspender belts but from what I'd read in the adverts, corsets were sized on waist and hips.

 

The first pair I ordered had a 32-inch waist not realizing that the average woman has a much bigger hip spring than a man. I couldn't wait for it to arrive and when it did my heart leapt when I saw the brown paper parcel in the form a long narrow rectangular box. I nervously opened up the long narrow white cardboard box and saw the black satin corset neatly rolled in the box. I lifted it out, the suspender straps jiggled and the chrome fittings glinted as I unrolled it and then held it by the waist.

 

I opened it out to look at it in more detail. I saw the label which said "Contessa", 32/40, which I took to be waist and hips. It had full length bones - actually, I later learned to be light spiral steels. I quickly wrapped it around myself. I was then faced with having to do up no fewer than 15 pairs of hooks and eyes at the side. Starting the process over the hips was easy, but the nearer I got to my waist the hooking up proved to be more and more difficult. By the time I was engaging the last hooks in their eyes I was pulling with all my might, not to mention that I'd been forced to make several repeats as I was over adept at getting a hook on an eye that was one too high!

An original Contessa modelled by "Girdle Girl" and reproduced with permission gratefully received

 

Pulling on the front lacing was a completely new experience. Though it was located in front I found it quite hard to pull the top edges close to one another. Later I came to find that paradoxically corsets with back lacing were much easier to manipulate. With the front lacing closed up and found it was OK on my waist but it didn't touch my hips - anywhere!

 

I had found out that buying by mail order was hit and miss. I measured my hips - something I'd never done before - and found they were 37 inch while the corset hip was 40 inches. So I sent them back to exchange them for a 30-inch waist, This came a week later and, while it was still slightly too big on the hips and very tight on the waist, I could manage it. I also found it was so low cut that the suspenders couldn't be shortened enough for all but my shortest pair of stockings. You see, by the late 1960s because of short skirts, stockings were longer than in the 1950s. The length of my stockings meant the "gap" between them and the corset hem simply wasn't enough! In fact, I had to fold over the stockings tops to get any tension in the suspender elastic. I had learned enough about my tastes to know that when taut they gave me a very rewarding feeling and that there was nothing worse than slack suspenders between a girdle or corset and one's stockings.

 

 

MY LIFE IS CHANGED FOREVER

 

I hope you will believe when I say that wearing it changed my life for ever. I thought I had found out what it felt like to be corseted, but later experience taught me this was nothing the real thing. I still have it in my corset drawer - though, not to wear any more - only for old times sake. I could never throw it away. It was the first time I had used wide suspenders which surprisingly were not really as strong as the elastic in the suspenders I had got used to on my suspender belts. The elastic was ribbed and I found it too stretchy. I liked the fact they were black elastic - I hated the sight of my Gran's pink ones! - As for the chrome stocking clips they had the unusual clip frame wire bent in angles rather than curves. However they did have the chrome plated central rivets in the suspender button (nob).

 

For me that type of suspender nob - with the central rivet - are far and away the best and my corsetière managed to find me about 50 unused ones for wide elastic, when they were discontinued in the late 1970s. The older idea is the answer to slipped clips, but of course its button or Anob@ is thicker and it betrays its presence more under a dress or, in my case, a trouser leg. Now I keep what I have left of that type especially for my back suspenders. (The worst thing about a suspender slipping off a stocking top is that it usually happens at to the back ones and is impossible to clip back on without undoing them all and starting again unless one can call on the help of an understanding partner or friend.

 

The position of the front pair of suspenders was very close to the centre line more suitable for a woman than a man..... However, I could never understand they didn't put a third pair of suspenders at the sides. It wasn't long before the lightly rubbered elastics got overstretched under my ministrations of shortening, in an effort to get my stockings taut and pulled up as much as I'd come to like to wear them.  I also found I liked the elastic front gussets which helped one to sit in something so deep and was intrigued by an elastic band across the back panel at hem level.

 

The feel of corsets containing me and their tightness and the feeling of tension in my suspenders and their pull on my stockings all gave me a sense of "reassurance" and "tranquillity". What I read of what Ivy says and what Alison said of her "Spenall" the feeling of being "contained" becomes addictive if one can "pass over" the threshold of discomfort.

 

In retrospect what it really taught me was that the secret of correct corset and girdle wearing is to wear the correct size and to have it anchored through very taut suspenders, with strong elastics, to ideally to FF stockings knitted from non-stretch nylon yarn. It also told me that I should find someone to make for me personally, but how?

 

 

A SEARCH FOR THE "REAL THING"

 

I felt very alone with my secret. Many times I thought I might tell someone I thought I trusted about what I did, but always thought better of it. I tried to read up to find out why I had the compulsion. At the end I think I knew everything there was to know and to realise some of the experts didn't understand what motivated me. It bothered me that many would call me a transvestite. I didn't think I was one and I certainly had no desire to be a woman or to dress as one. I simply wanted to wear stockings pulled by taut suspenders attached to a suspender belt or corset, no more - no less!

 

The late 1960s saw a revolution in how openly matters related to corsets, etc. were discussed. New magazines featuring readers' letters such as "Forum" and "Mentor" and "Search" appeared. I was pleased to find letters from other men wore simply liked to wear stockings and corsets which confirmed that I was not alone. One man wrote that both he and his wife wore corsets and how he liked to be very stiffly corseted with up to eight suspenders clipped to each of his stockings.

 

At the same time, items like lingerie were being advertised by mail order companies in the personal columns and small display adverts of newspapers and magazines. None of them offered anything more than the basque and waspie I had tried, there were never any for corsets. My search was getting no where, then in 1971, I saw an advert for high-heeled shoes in large sizes in the Observer Personals and wondered if they sold corsets. Out of desperation I now became a detective and elicited the advertiser's phone number using Kelly's London directory. I was nervous when I phoned but was put at ease by a friendly woman who answered and confirmed that did sell corsets for men and women. They could even get me them made to measure and, as she said they could fit all the bones and steels one wanted, so it sounded like "the real thing" to me. She recommended I sent for their catalogue which I did. What they offered was a revelation - not just one but seven styles of corset in various lengths with mention of busks, steels, double boning and back lacing. It was then I realized what a busk was. Several times I was tempted to order one by mail order but held back. I thought and thought and the more I thought the more I knew I had to talk to someone. The lady had seemed very approachable, so I phoned again and to my pleasant surprise she said I should make an appointment and so I met her one June day in 1972.

 

I wondered whether I should wear my black satin front lacer for the occasion but, in the event, I was afraid to do so and went wearing my suspender belt and stockings. I took along the black front lacer in my briefcase. She proved to be as open and natural about what I wore and I quickly felt at ease. I showed her the corset I had brought along and explained that I wasn't satisfied with suspender belts and that, more than anything, I wanted a corset that didn't move under the pull of suspenders but that had enough of a "gap" between its hem and my stocking tops so that the suspender straps could be shortened enough to let them pull my stockings as taut as I liked them to be.

 

In the end she understood my problem, she measured me and produced from a deep chest of drawers several styles of deep boned suspender belt and two corsets she had in stock. The belts were too big but the corset seemed right so she let me hook up the busk -the first time I had ever done so - and I wrapped it over my shirt and trousers with its suspenders dangling and she proceeded to pull on the laces till it was tight. By now I had lost my shyness which was due to the way she accepted me, man as I was. She asked me to look in the mirror and said the big gap would go when I wore it properly. I questioned her about the back lacing and she said, it was easier than front lacer, I was sceptical but when I tried it later I found she was right So I bought my first busk fronted back lacing corset, complete with suspenders made with wide chrome clips and wide black elastic. The straps were short and I needed to wear the longest stockings I had to get them clipped on. It was the reverse problem to the black front lacer. I needed longer elastic so I went back and she got me three pairs of long suspenders. I sewed them on myself and finally was wearing what I wanted for the first time - a corset which fitted with three pairs of long suspenders that could be adjusted to pull every length of stocking taut. At first I found it tight with it two inches open but within a month I could lace it closed for several hours at a time. I learned a lot and occasionally wore it to work.

 

Slowly more adverts for corsets appeared. I bought more items to experiment including a basque, with detachable suspenders from Kesmans. It hooked up the front and had back lacing and light boning. Having worn the "real thing" this was worse than useless in providing what I had come to appreciate and I got rid of it very quickly.

 

In desperation I ordered a made to measure corset by mail order from the store where I bought the waspie. It was what I would now call a man's corselette which took on the hips and most of my chest and had shoulder straps and had three pairs of suspenders. It was 22 inches long with a 13-inch busk and hooks and eyes above and below the busk. I went to collect it. Given the way she had laced the waspie on me before I asked if I could try it on, only to get the kind of response I dreaded I might hear during my odyssey. Although I'd paid a princely sum for it, I was effectively shown the door.

 

When I put it on it was a little too small and didn't have enough lacing for me to open it out enough. But where was I to buy suitable lacing? First I found the proper name was "Russia Braid", but none of the haberdashery stores or departments that I contacted sold it. In the end I bought a length of nylon cord. That taught me that nylon is unsuitable as corset lacing because it stretches more than cotton and that is too much for effective lacing in. I was learning all the time. Fine cotton curtain cord proved best.

 

By now I had bought 85 pairs of stockings, 19 suspender belts, one waspie, one basque and three corsets. I had bought both made to measure and ready-made corsets, but knew I had more to learn.

 

By now letters from men who wore corsets and wrote about wearing them appeared fairly regularly in magazine correspondence. One mentioned one Overett who made corsets for men and women before the war. Clearly, out there somewhere were other men who were already able to buy and wear the same kind of corset as I wanted to wear. All this, the letters and photos spurred me to continue my odyssey.

 

 

A BREAK THROUGH AT LAST

 

In the mid 1970s interest in corsets seemed to revive. A lady in Stockport, Cheshire began advertising corsets in the Guardian Personals. We spoke on the phone, but it was 200 miles to her salon and I felt there had to be such a person nearer where I lived. Wilbro of Manchester began advertising in the "Sunday Times" personals, as did Fanny Copère of Richmond Surrey, and I saw an advert by a firm in London, A. Gardner. These last two Simon knew. Wilbro aimed at those interested in tight lacing with statements like "EXPERIENCED CORSET WEARERS enjoy the pull of the Stay-lace!" (Sunday Times, Feb 1977) and "YOUR CORSET-CONTROLLED FIGURE will be the envy of all!", (ST, May 1, 1977)

 

I wrote to all three companies for catalogues. Wilbro and Copère sent theirs by return of post but I was disappointed that I never got an answer from Gardners. The catalogues were very different in their production and presentation but they were both fascinating to read and I have kept them both to this day.

 

 

THE WILBRO CATALOGUE

 

The Wilbro catalogue, produced as it was at what proved to be the end of the traditional corset era offered probably the last comprehensive range offered by any firm. The pages were run off on by the stencil process and had simple but clear line drawings that had been made straight onto the stencil wax. The busk, bones and suspenders were clearly shown and conveyed what the style was. Separate order forms were provided to order men’s' or women's corsets.

 

It was an Aladdin's cave with 18 different styles and up twelve alternatives for any style, - about 120 designs in all. There were corsets, corselettes, girdles and panty girdles in every imaginable material all off the peg and there was a separate section of made-to-measure styles - period corsets, ladies' corsets and gentlemen's no less than seven designs were offered, I was very tempted to buy one but with my lack of experience with my corselette I judged the cost of six times that of ready made to be too much for a novice to risk. I knew I needed to gain more of an understanding.

 

Like Spirella, Wilbro used letters or numbers to distinguish each model. Terms like PCRW - Period corset ready to Wear and BLBU, Back Lacing, Busk-front Corset with Under-belt. There were maybe 20 or more acronyms followed by sequential numbers.

 

 

COPERE'S CATALOGUE

 

In contrast Copère produced a much smaller, 12 page catalogue on glossy paper and had just eight made to measure corset styles. A page was devoted to each corset style with four quarter page photos of live models wearing them taken from four positions - front, back, side and at 45E on each page. I found it slightly strange that while all had suspenders, they were not attached to stockings since all the models wore "cat suits" under all.

 

I immediately classified them by eyelet count above and below the waist loops. I absorbed all I could of the very detailed descriptions such as "boned on the cross", "underbusk", "wedge busk", "lined and interlined", "double boned", etc. I was especially taken with the very high cut styles that flared in front and cut to contain the bosom and to be worn without a bra, but covering the nipples. To me the "Isabella" with "reinforced eyelets for tight-lacing" and in "the heavier version lined, interlined and double boned with flat steels" sounded a truly exciting corset to wear, and one I hoped to aspire to wear in the course of time.  Both it and the "Margarita" styles were very long and came up from the lower hip, over the bosom reaching right up under the arm pit, just like the one "The Millionairess" wore!

 

I was later to learn that six of the designs were actually Gardner's designs and two of them were those of Vollers of Portsmouth, a competitor of Gardners.

Corset styles Isabella (above) and Jean (below)

 

     

 Fanny Copere's corsets

 were usually copies, or re-

 sold versions of Gardners

 and Vollers corsets.

Styles 'La Taille', 'Godet', 'Hook-side, lace-side' (couldn't they think of a name?), and the 'Modern Waspie Mini'.

 

 

 

A MYSTERY WOMAN WITH A CINCHED WAIST

 

With its catalogue Copère included a one page advert and one side of it reproduced what proved to be the cover of a book they published called "The Corset Question". The sheet included a front view photo of a smiling middle-aged woman, hands on her hips wearing a tightly belted black dress. Her waist was cinched in so much it could only have been achieved with a corset. Below was the caption "A wasp-waist of the Nineteen Seventies. Bust 38 inches, hips 40 inches, waist laced to 19 inches"                                                                                  Iris Norris writes on the back of an A. Gardner business card >

 

Note the waist and the satin skirt.

Mrs. Norris knew just how to dress to please a man in the nicest possible way.

 

 

 I got the book and was very pleased to find a second photo of the wasp-waisted lady, this time photographed from the rear, in a centre section which featured several other photos of women in corsets. It added the information that she was a "grandmother aged 50", who had been making corsets all her life" and that her 19" waist which she had achieved by achieved by wearing a corset which Copère sold as their style "Jean".

 

 

The legendary corsetiere  Iris Norris and examples of Copere's "Jean" or Godet corset style

 

When I got eventually got  Gardner's catalogue, I found out it was actually

their style L267,

 

while Wilbro sold it as MMCL5.

 

Both firms had them made to measure

by Gardner.

The "Godet" corset is specially designed to give the wearer the glamour of a small waist. It has a busk-front fastening, and is back laced with a strong lace to really pull in the waist. The incorporation of special fluted hip panels into the design of the corset will accentuate the hip line and allow free hip movement. Heavy boning ensures good figure control. The top of the corset coves 3" to 4" above the waist and gives a really superb line. For maximum effect of this corset on the wearer's figure there must be at least 10" between the wearer's waist and hip sizes - 4 suspenders. Minimum back length 14". 

 

"Jean' an Iris favourite

Here was real live woman who actually wore corsets out of choice. Not just any corset but a truly formidable corset made to cultivate a small waist, and had worn them all her life and what is more made them for a living. She was obviously almost old enough to be my mother but I did stop to marvel at what it might be like to be married to a woman such as her who wore such corsets as "Jean" all day every day!

 

What I was to find out later was that she made up her own Godet style with the ultimate in busk design - the "spoon" busk, A vigorous woman who even painted the outside of the window frames of her house all by herself, and did so while tightly laced in a spoon-busked, Jean, L271 corset wearing real seamed nylons! Not surprisingly she regularly broke those priceless busks. As their availability became difficult in the early 1990s, somehow she managed to find a few recycled ones to keep in reserve.

It all made me more determined than ever to continue with my corseting and to get more experience. Little did I know that within the year I would meet my mystery woman.

 

 

 

BUYING CORSETS BY MAIL ORDER

 

In the meantime, how was I to continue? What corsets should I buy next? I spent weeks comparing the catalogues and thinking about and made tables of what was offered by the two makers. Both gave very detailed instructions on how to measure oneself and I read and reread that information till I thought I understood.

 

I could either economise and learn with off the shelf corsets or spend much more on another mail order made to measure and risk being disappointed and seriously out of pocket as I'd been before, so that ruled out Copère.

 

In the end I realised that I had more to learn more before I went back to mail order made to measure. However I really wanted a corset for a man - made to measure so I wrote to both for clarification and got a very helpful reply from "M Beck" on behalf of Wilbro and also one from Copère which confirmed my suspicion that they were actually an agency selling corsets made elsewhere.

 

Economics won out, at least I rationalised it by thinking I needed to learn some more. I finally decided to buy from Wilbro in Manchester, but which ones to get and which size? . By now I had the experience of the three real corsets plus the basque deep suspender belts and waspie, the black "Contessa", the 8-inch deep waspie and the 22-inch male corselette.

 

I now knew my hip spring was only about 4 inches without a corset or 6-7 inches if I cinched my waist, In contrast most of the Wilbro ready to wear range of designs had 8-10 inch hip spring, cut for the average woman, not for men. Selecting thus became a process of elimination.

 

I had learned from the Contessa that didn't want hooks and eyes, nor did I want front lacing. I wanted a longer busk front and I wanted back lacing. The male corselette was too tight and too long to be practicable with stockings. Some styles came with two and others with three, pairs of suspenders, so I'd choose a style with three pairs and the least hip spring. Wilbro featured under-belts on some styles, so I decided to get one that included that feature. I did not want pink, if I could be avoided, but in my zeal to learn I would take it if it best met my needs.

 

With a hundred designs to choose from I made my choice not so much on the basis of getting two very different styles from which to learn even more about the different types of corsets one could wear, styles which I thought would educate me most. I decided on one that was a classical tight lacer and one with under-belts. The choice wasn't easy bearing in mind they all said they were cut for a 11-inch hip spring and mine was only 6". How could I accommodate that in my choice?

 

Many styles were made with waists at 2 inch intervals.  Fewer styles offered waists at one inch interval. I was 33 inch natural waist - maybe 30 inch if tightly corseted. If I got that size it would mean 40 inch hips and mine were 38 inches. I'd have the same trouble as the black Contessa gave me. So I settled on a 29-inch waist for each of them which I realised would have to gape at the top of the lacing when it fitted tight on my hips. If the waist was correct, the corset might not touch my hips at any point, while with the right hips it would gape and be very tight on the waist. As with the black Contessa, I decided that this was the lesser of two evils. This was the description of the ones I chose:

 

BLBU 4 under-belted back lacing, medium boned corset made in strong cotton material with covered busk. Uplift under-belt with hookside fastening. 6 suspenders. Depth 15". hip Spring 11"to 12". Waist sizes 26" to 42 ", every inch. Tea Rose. Price £7.70.

 

Yes, it was tea rose - pink, but I swallowed my old aversion and resolved to dye it and feeling curious, I decided to get one with under belts.

 

PCRW 2 Traditional Victorian style figure-forming tight-lacing corset. Well boned, and flat steels at the back for support. Designed to fit seven inches above the waistline. Total front depth 15". Front fastening with 13' busk reinforced with an underbusk. Back lacing with strong lace, and waist tape reinforced for tight lacing. Superior striped pattern cloth. 4 suspenders. Waist sizes 24" to 36" (even sizes only). White. £9.50.

 

This was a PCRW (period corset ready to wear) which fascinated me and a longer version of my waspie and would come well up above the waist I thought it might deal with my spare tyre which developed above the top of my short corset if I laced tight. There was no mention of hip spring. I was ready to take a chance. I accepted that it had just four suspenders - I could sew some more on. Moreover, it came in white, not pink. When it came, I found it was unlined with spiral steels, stiff back steels, a 13" five stud busk, and a formidable under-busk.

 

Wilbro also sold "Elbeo" brand "Supphose" and so, as I had never tried them I order a pair for shoe size 9-10, broad leg, colour "Haze" for £2.00.

 

 

TRYING THEM ON - "CORSET TAKEOVER"

 

The corsets came very quickly and I spend the weekend trying them on. I was glad to find they both came with chrome suspender fittings and wide elastic.

 

I quickly examined the PCRW2 and found it had a full length under busk, single spiral steels in the side panels and I liked to feel the strong back spring steels. I'd never had a corset with them before. I decided it on first and what surprises it yielded from its inert self. I was unable to get the busk slotted because it distorted so much on account of the cut, even with the lacings provided fully open. There was not enough lace to let me do it so I took the black lace out of my basque and added it on. Like this I was able to get one stud on, and with great effort and much sucking in of my stomach and struggling for about 10 minutes I finally I got all the busk studs hooked. I was out of breath and had to stop.

 

When I took stock, I was thrilled to feel how well the corset fitted around me. I reached back and finally located the ends of the lacing loops and gradually pulled in on them I felt the corset hugging me tighter and tighter. Then I started to lace in and the effect was electrifying. Very quickly I felt the busk and underbusk appear to be propelled right into my midriff curving as they did as if the whole corset would overwhelm and crush me. It took a few moments to realise that it was my pulling on the lacings that did this.

 

This was one of the "corset moments" that I will never forget. I realised that once I knotted the lace, I would be subject to the effect of how I had laced myself in, until I unloosened it. What I experienced I now understand is described by the term "corset takeover". If the corset tightening stops before this point, one remains in control of one's movements but, beyond this point, one really is only able to move as much as the corset will allow one to do.

 

Years later I realised that when my corsetière was lacing me in the fitting room she would sense when she reached the takeover point, pull a little more and would then knot the lacings. I came to realise that she knew what she was doing and how it should be. I hesitate to use the word "discipline" because of the associations the word has, but in reality beyond this point the wearer's life is disciplined by the corset.

 

Laced in properly, the PCRW2 corset fitted very well over the hips but there was too much at the top. Then came another surprise. I was so stiffly corseted I could hardly bend enough to put on my stockings let alone twist to do up the back pair of suspenders. Added to that was the fact that I now found the suspenders were too short and had to stop and had to change into my longest stockings in order to get them on the suspenders!

 

Time was going on and I was anxious to try on my other selection, the BLBU4. When it came to taking off the white corset I almost regretted, but I was eager to find out what the under-belted style  felt like.

 

First I examined it and it was exactly as described and noted additional details not given in the catalogue description. For example, "medium boning" meant spiral steels, but no flat back steels like the white one had. It too was unlined. It had a rather short, 8 inch long front busk with four or five hook and eyes below it. The under-belt was six inches deep and boned with spiral steels. The six suspenders were made with reasonably strong 1 inch width pink elastic, all sewn to the outer skirt of the corset. Years later I saw that sometimes suspenders were attached at one end to the corset with trolley suspenders and with the other end of the elastic sewn to the under-belt.

 

But before I began with the stocking and suspender problems of the PCRW fresh in my mind, I decided to put on the new Supphose on before fitting the pink corset.

 

 

LACING ON PINK CORSETS

 

I put on my new pink under-belted pink corset. No two corsets could  have been more different to put on. Since I wanted to learn more, I had selected well. The under-belts were a great help in holding it in place to hook the short busk. The back pair of suspenders were sewn on really far towards the back lacing and for the first time I had to reach between my legs to clip them on my stocking tops which, being Supphose, really needed pulling up to do it. What I learned from that was that I'd have to clip them on my suspenders before hooking up the busk. Lacing in was strange as it came very tight on my waist - like the black Contessa had but it was only just touching my form on my hips while the under-belts were tight.

 

When I got the Supphose tautly suspendered they pulled the corset hem taut as well and I felt more contained in corsets and stockings than I ever had done before. Although it was pink, I didn't care, I enjoyed the feeling. Ironically I was wearing the antithesis of what I thought I wanted - a pink corset and brown seamless Supphose with pink six suspenders but the feeling was wonderful. I had reached a new milestone the experience confirmed that I cared more for the tactile feeling than the visual factor, though perversely, for me, the new pink corsets started to had their own beauty......

 

I no longer just wondered how the corseted and stockinged women, I had admired down the years, must have felt inside their tautly suspendered stockings and tight corsets or girdles. I believed that I was now experiencing it what they did. I was certainly not disappointed and something told me that while many women complained about having to dress like that, there must have been some who secretly enjoyed what I was enjoying. Above all I wanted confirmation for my belief that such things could be enjoyed equally by men as by women and that men should not be judged negatively for doing so. Little did I know as you will soon read, that within a few months my faith would be rewarded. In fact I felt strangely complete for the first time in my life. I resolved to find someone who would make me the kind of corset I could wear under my male clothes for the rest of my life.

 

What amazes me, when I write in 2006 about how I felt in 1976, is how much I identify with what Alison Perry, writing in 2001, about her experiences as a Spencer corsetière in the 1950s. I believe that my experience parallels some of that of which Alison writes about her early days of wearing her "Spenall". There are the quotes which touched a chord in me:

 

.....When it was on me and completely done up with my stockings attached (to six garters instead of the four I was used to, an extra set at the back) she had me try walking around. Not only did it look different from girdles I normally wore, it felt different. It was heavier and stiffer and had a longer skirt than I was used to. This longer skirt made walking a little more restricted and she had also made the garters shorter so they pulled hard on my stockings at every step.......

 

.....Then, strangely enough, after a few months, I began to need it. In fact I felt lost without it. I am not saying I particularly liked it, but after the first few months I started to look forward to the feel of its firm support and put it on as soon as I got up in the morning.......

 

........ So when I was hooked up into my first Spencer it felt so different. My initial feeling was definitely one of pleasure and well being at being so tightly caressed......

 

I felt many of the same things, yet I was a man. So putting my experience against that of Alison I think if anything the comparison confirms my belief that the tactile sensations that a wearer gets from a corset worn with tautly suspendered stockings transcends gender. It also confirms what the other Alison comments "there's no doubt many women feel trimmer when girded by a girdle and are tightly suspendered."

 

 

THE QUEST FOR A PERSONAL CORSETIERE

 

It was time to take stock and think where I was going. I had now worn stockings with a suspender belt to work for about five years. Although I had now got five corsets, none of them was suitable to wear under my clothes to work. At the same time I was educating myself and had passed over a number of key events which were, firstly - the moment I touched the stocking at the dance, secondly - wearing my own stockings and suspenders for the first time, thirdly - lacing on my first laced corset, the black Contessa and fourthly - hooking up my first busk front. 

 

Each step was taking me to a new level of corset and stocking experience. I had experienced most types of corset. I knew the difference between flat and spiral steels, I could manipulate a busk, hooks and eyes, I knew where to clip suspenders on stocking tops, depending on how many there were on a belt or corset and what lengths of stockings went best with which corset. I was no longer a novitiate but I still had doubts. I also knew that I was ready to discuss what I wanted in person with someone who made them - a corsetière.

 

But how was I to find one? How would my quest continue? Gardners seemed possible but how could I get in touch? I again resorted to Kelly's London Directory. Two months later I had my first appointment with Mrs. Norris  who was to be my corsetière for the next twenty years.

 

 

I MEET MY LIFETIME CORSETIERE

 

With a little concern, I dialled the number that I was to commit to memory for years to come. The phone seemed to ring for ages. I was about to give up when a lady with a flat but very friendly cockney accent answered, "603-2001". I asked if it was Gardners and she said yes. I asked if they made corsets for men and she again said yes. I nervously explained that I wanted a corset and realized I was talking to the corsetière who obviously was quite used to dealing with men. In a few seconds I was completely relaxed.

 

I was amazed how easy it was to discuss everything. She said that the owner Mr Gardner was on holiday. She said she was Mrs Norris and could see me that day whenever I wished to call and discuss my requirements and she could measure that day. I felt 10 feet tall. I had arranged an appointment with a corsetière!

 

Coincidentally that same day I bought a magazine that included photos submitted by a "Berkshire Reader", entitled "The Appeal of the well-corseted Figure" which included three photos - front, side and rear views - of what appeared to be a busk-fronted, back-lacing, full hip controlling design of corset, worn over a corselette to which the stockings were suspendered. The corset had full length heavy boning and I was sure they were being worn by a man. Many years later I found out that both garments had been made by True Grace Foundations of Wokingham, Berks.

 

I arrived in Barnsbury Square at around three o'clock. I parked the car, and walked towards No 28. As I did, I wondered if any neighbours were watching and if they knew what my business was. Below the bell was a sign "A Gardner and sons Ltd. When I got to the door, The bell was really loud and I waited nervously. Eventually through the frosted glass I saw someone approach. The door was opened by a woman wearing heavy framed black glasses, who I guessed to be in her mid-fifties. I introduced myself as the man who had phoned earlier and she warmly asked me in, saying "Follow me this way".

 

I followed her along the corridor and couldn't help but noticing she was wearing seamed stockings on her shapely calves. They were dark brown and had long point heels, like the Aristoc 222s I was wearing myself. She took me along to the back of the house opened the basement door and led me down the stairs after asking me to close the door because of the baby. We entered a large basement room with a wide long table covered in bolts of corset fabric and cut corset panels waiting to be sewn up by the machines at the end of the room.

 

I started to explain what I wanted and to cut the questions I showed her the photos from the magazine I had just bought. I said I wanted a corset like that, but in black and with shoulder straps. She looked at the photo carefully. As she did so, I now noticed her waist was cinched by a tight belt and was so small that she had to be tightly corseted. She understood at once what I wanted and said "You'd better come to the fitting room and I'll measure you".

 

 

IN THE FITTING ROOM

 

Every time she moved away my eyes were drawn to her seams and I was amazed to see how straight and central they were on her calves. Here was a woman who was not only wearing the seamed stockings I so admired, but she was tightly corseted to.

 

As she measured me, I told her I wanted it to be 2 inches open when it was fully laced in and I opened my shirt to show her the white PCRW2 that I was wearing. She measured me taking a measurement at the chest, waist and hips and writing it down.

 

She asked what I wanted in front a busk or what. She said some people liked a full length front lacing but she didn’t recommend it. She would make me a long busk fronted, back lacing corset faced in black leatherette, lined in twill  with rigid shoulder straps and buckle adjustment and would put on the three pairs of suspenders with the strong wide black elastic that I wanted.

 

Suddenly the phone rang and she left the fitting room, to answer it. I took the opportunity to look around. There were several copies of the magazine "Corsetry and Underwear" on the table and which I looked at. On the wall were leaflets showing, on blue paper, the styles of men's corsets - complete with sketch drawings while the pink women's leaflet featured photos of corsets being modelled by a young woman. Years later I found out she was a client who had married one of Gardners male clients.

 

On the wall were two diplomas that attested that a Mr Frank Gardner had received for courses in corset making and corset design at a college in Holborn, I think, in about 1950. Also on the wall was a large sheet of information on wages put out by I think a Wages council.

 

 Also on the wall was a 10 inch  by 8 inch size photo - the same one that was reproduced on the cover of "Corset Question". I had a feeling that it was the woman who was attending to me, except she wasn't wearing glasses. When she came back I asked her if the photo was of her and she confirmed that it was and that it had been taken a few years before. Mrs Norris was the mystery woman.

 

 

I PHILOSOPHISE

 

I put two and two together and noted that not only was she a corset wearer but that she also wore fully fashioned stockings. Given how straight her seams were I guessed that she was also tautly suspendered too. I then realized that together in that room were a man and a woman, each of whom was wearing busk fronted, back lacing corsets with tautly suspendered seamed stockings. I drew comfort from this fact and from realising that, though I was a man and she was a woman and that she knew my secret, she obviously accepted me as I wearing corsets and stockings. I also realized that she probably had a number of male clients like me and it all meant a lot to me, though each time I met her I was always surprised and cheered by the fact that I could actually talk to someone about problems with stockings and corsets and that she too had experienced, and what is more do so on an equal basis.

 

We finished our business and she could have it ready in a week. I said I would be back on a Friday to which she said that she only worked mid-week - Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday - because she had moved out of London and lived in Bucks. This meant a long train journey and so she came in very early and worked three very long days. She said she would leave the corset with a woman down the road, but in the end I changed the day of collection in order to see her again.  Before I left she gave me copies of their catalogue and order form and price lists. On the men’s leaflet was this slogan.

 

"Remember.  Clothes maketh a Man,  Corsets maketh the Figure"

 

 

I SEE THE FUTURE AT LAST

 

I returned as planned, having phoned ahead to confirm she was there and yes the corsets were ready. I called around and was thrilled to see the long brown paper roll containing the rolled high top corset. She opened it out and showed me her craftsmanship. Although she was quite friendly, I suddenly felt overcome with embarrassment as the suspenders dropped down and glinted. She even asked if I wanted to try it on but I felt filled with shame and guilt as to what I was doing. The corset I was wearing felt impossibly tight. So I said "No thank you", that I was sure it would be fine. She wrapped it and escorted me to the front door and feeling every neighbour was watching me out of their window and seeing the long package would know where I had been and what I did, as I carried it with me to the car.

 

The back leatherette high top proved to be too tight to wear, except for short periods, but the four pairs of suspenders were wonderful. Within weeks I had phoned Mrs Norris again. I had perused the catalogue and wanted the style G78 "Casual", a 12-inch long corset rather like a longer version of my waspie. My odyssey was over.  I had found my dream. I was to have 23 years with Iris as my personal corsetière and confidante - but that's another story.

 

 

Frangard 2

 

 

 

 

 

 

                                                

 

 

 

Black corsets and why do they tear so often?

Observations by Frangard 2

 

 

BLACK DYEING AND COTTON YARN

 

In the January entry to her Diary, Ivy Leaf notes that at one period of time, corsets made or faced with black fabric tore more easily than those made up using fabrics of other colours. However, whilst the end result is tearing or ripping of the corset body, the cause of the weakness is more likely to be related to the fact that, until relatively recently, the dyes, and especially those used in the 1980s, had and may still have a continuous and progressively deleterious effect on the cotton yarn in the material they had dyed.

 

In times ranging between just a few months to many years, the yarn is steadily rendered rotten. In due course, the material might then suddenly tear because it was being strained, as the corset as a whole was being laced tight, or it tried to resist expansion when the wearer moved - to bend or sit down - in such a way as to overstrain any of the weakened yarn in the material.

 

It is suggested that the type of dyes used in the late 1970s to mid 1980s was the culprit in the matter. It has been suggested that because the dyeing process calls for boiling liquids to fix the dye in the yarn and that this intrinsically weakens cotton yarn. In this regard the evidence is to the contrary, in that for centuries, cotton yarns have been repeatedly boiled without loss of strength or rotting of the yarn.

 

In point of fact, the problem of tearing and failure of black cotton fabric is not limited to black fabric in corsets. If a matching shade of cotton-based elastic was used for its suspenders then they would fail more quickly than those made up from elastics of other colours. No less an expert than Iris Norris, when working at Gardners and later as an independent corsetiere, would counsel clients that failure of suspender elastic occurred more frequently with elastic that was dyed black.

 

Other evidence of the way black dye can rot cotton was found in the early 1990s when American-made "vintage", fully fashioned nylon stockings were being sold as being '60 Denier’ nylon. In fact only the legs and feet were knitted with the 60D, shiny (non-delustered), nylon yarn. The after-welts and true welts (folded stocking tops), were knitted of another material, almost certainly cotton. It is thus probable that the original stockings dated back to a time when nylon was still in short supply and there was evidence that the black colour was the result of later dyeing, since the cards on which the stockings were wrapped prior to being placed in the packet were stained with black dye, which probably betrayed the fact that the stockings were initially of another colour and had been dyed black for resale many years later.

 

When worn, even for the first time, it was found that the welt material was close to rotten whilst at 60D the nylon yarn used to knit the legs and feet was almost completely snag resistant. Upon closer study of the damaged welts it was found that, wherever and whenever a welt-covered suspender knob/button was slid into the frame of its suspender clip, the gripping pressure was sufficient to break the yarn almost immediately and as likely as not a hole would develop. Within a few wearings the holes that formed all around the welts would become so prevalent as to make it almost impossible to clip suspenders to them.

 

Again it is suggested that the chemicals comprising the black dye had rotted the cotton in the welts. Since the dyeing which appears to have caused these problems was in the same era when Spirella suffered from a poor batch of black orchid material (mid-1980-s) that the cause was the same.

 

 

TEARING OR RIPPING - A PROBLEM OF CONSTRUCTION NOT MATERIAL

Moving now to the observations on the failures occurring at stitching. It is considered that most experienced corset wearers will have examined or worn many styles of corset over time. Essentially a corset comprises several individually shaped panels sewn to form the corset body that was then hemmed and the bones strapped in their casings directly onto the panels. Within this basic requirement there are various combinations of:

 

 

 

 

All readers would do well to note Ivy Leaf's advice about the importance of breaking in to allow the material to conform to one's form. After that, one can lace oneself in very tightly if desired.

 

The writer is convinced from personal experience, almost always with corsets made of black dyed material, that this three-layer construction and procedure helped reduce ripping. He personally knew three of Mrs Norris's tight-lacing lady clients and, while the exigencies of their taste in tight-lacing meant that periodically their corsets would rip while being laced tight, only one of them had any serious trouble with ripping when the corsets had been excessively repaired anyway. Colour of material does not appear to have been a factor. Even then closer investigation would reveal that this was the result of continuing to use an old, much-repaired corset, much favoured because of its wonderful fit.